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If I Ran the Schools...

If I ran the public school system...

Oh the fun I'd have. First I'd start "school" at 10 not 5. That's ages not time. If we had to have a place to house children from the age of 5 on it would be pure play with lots of outdoor time.

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Classes would be optional and the primary purpose of the whole kit and kaboodle would be to learn about anything you want. The school would be more library than school. Access to tools, gym equipment, labs, etc. Experts in different fields available to share their passions. Books, the fastest internet available, and scores of student-organized field trips/internships/shadowing.

There would be work to do. Actual work. Maybe not at the school but if you wanted to learn about fixing cars you would get to actually fix cars and get paid. There would be limits to ensure it doesn't become "child labor" but trust me, kids want to labor on something productive instead of times tables and standardized tests.

There would be governance - self-governance where the children and the adults are complete equals in decision making for the school. From hiring to building maintenance, children who were interested would be able to lead.

Their would be no division based on ages or level of knowledge. Younger kids would benefit from the knowledge of older kids and vice versa. Children would be encouraged to teach what they know to others.

There would be seminar series that are optional but interesting. Like TEDx talks.

There would be lots of resources and opportunities on social justice and problem solving. For example,

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  • Learning from History (not just "about" history written by the conquering race)

  • Causes of poverty and inequality (not just "economics" to further entrench us in capitalist thinking)

  • Systems theory and Holism (learning a discipline is nice but only if you understand the whole)

  • Survival skills (no Bear Grylls stuff but anymore basics like gardening, canning, basic carpentry, etc. are nostalgic memories)


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Debate, Discourse, Logic, and Rhetoric would be encouraged. Skills like brainstorming, executive cognition, and transformative learning would be emphasized.

Even at 10-16 there would still be lots of play. If Google has taught us anything it is that play is a human need. Sports could be organized if desired but just as likely to be a simple pick up game or an elaborate new game invented by the students.

16 you say? Yep. At 16, children would be granted full citizenship (we say they have it now but they don't). You would simultaneously be able to drive, drink, vote, rent a car, etc. (not at the same time but...you know what I mean). No prolonging of childhood by being greedy with rights and privileges.

Obviously, a change this huge is difficult in such a huge and entrenched system. That's why I'm homeschooling. I'm raising my kids for the future I hope to see not the one cynicism says we are going to get. Because if you prepare for the status quo you'll always have the status quo. To mix things up you have to dream and reach beyond what you can see.

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One Month As Fulltimers!

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We celebrated our first month as fulltimers by taking a long nature walk at Goodyear Heights Metropark Alder Pond trail. We saw a bunch of wildlife and cool bright orange mushrooms I think are Laetiporus also called sulphur shelf mushrooms or Chicken of the Woods because they apparently taste like chicken. I will try them one day when I become more knowledgeable on edible plants and fungi.

Life couldn't be better right now. We've made amazing friends who camp here on the weekends and the kids are just flourishing in nature. I was prepared to have some "adjustment pains" to life in a 24' RV but I haven't yet. That doesn't mean I won't - this could just be the "honeymoon" phase - but none yet.

Unschooling seems to just be fall-off-a-log easy in nature. Our walk today we discussed marshes, reeds, frogs, ducks vs. geese, trail etiquette, mushrooms, the lifecycle (how the dead, fallen trees rot and make nutrients for the new plants), and why people buy memorial benches.  All in 2 hours. I certainly didn't have all the answers and we left deciding we wanted to find a tree/plant/bird/animal/fungi identifying app for our phones so we can learn more when we hike.

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Birds and Fish

We have neighbors with exotic birds. Here are some pictures that Pete took of them:

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Aellyn is obsessed with them! She really wants a bird and we've had some great discussions about why we don't believe in owning wild animals (I think our neighbors would agree given that they are parrot rescuers).

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We enjoyed our first rainy-all-day inside day. We baked cookies together and made a huge mess of our non-existent counter space. We watched movies and popped popcorn. Not as fun as being outside, of course, but once in a while makes it a novelty.

Aellyn got to go fishing for the first time and caught TWO fish!

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On Living "Counter" Culture

In the months leading up to our departure as Fulltime RVers we had many naysayers. Most were worried about the unknown while others were just sure we'd taken leave of our senses. That's ok. Living in a counter culture way can cause people to feel uncomfortable.

I've said before that I think people get upset about the choices of others because they see them as reflecting poorly on their own life choices. This is false and comes from guilt and shame that society trains us to carry. My choices and my path are mine and not a comment on on your choices or your path. No, really.

Like I said in my article about WOHM vs SAHMs we are all really the best people when we are authentic and fulfilled. The journey we should all be on is to find that authentic self inside of us and live it OUT LOUD. Finding yours has nothing to do with what others are living.

Anyways. I did have one person who lashed out and called our lifestyle "child abuse." I think this is a term we need to stop throwing around. Like using "rape" in sports, throwing the term child abuse around belittles actual child abuse and I think reflects more on the insulter's personal problems than on the insultee's. To that person I'd like to respectfully snarkily present this:

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Don't they look sad? ha!

They are flourishing like all kids do in nature. Fishing, hiking, playing at the park and around the campfire - it's just been perfect.

I didn't realize how much I took on other peoples' negativity about us living in an RV. I spent many tears and sleepless nights on the opinions of these people. It was draining to say the least and hard to counter when we didn't have first hand experience at our chosen lifestyle.

Now that we've lived this for a while I feel like a reptile that has shed that heavy skin of negativity. Our daily life is now aligned with our inner passions and the extreme RIGHTNESS of it makes all the worry about the naysayers seem silly.

I never imagined myself as "counter culture." I'm just a regular girl from middle America. If you know me in person I'm pretty normal, right? Ok, eccentric...but normal. We're just trying to take our one life and the one childhood of our children and use it most wisely - in a way that aligns with our ethics. I don't want to tell my kids "live like this" I'd rather just live it and let them live it.

I don't think that is counter to our culture but a product of it - of the freedom to choose how we live. Calling it "counter" implies it is "against" what others ("culture") are doing.

Calling us eccentric. A hippie. "Alternative." Counter culture. It just disconnects us from each other. It makes an Us and a Them. It creates Other. I've really come to believe that "other" is the concept at the root of all violence and hate in this world. When we realize there is no "other" it is impossible to hate or do violence.
When you call yourself an Indian or a Muslim or a Christian or a European, or anything else, you are being violent. Do you see why it is violent? Because you are separating yourself from the rest of mankind. When you separate yourself by belief, by nationality, by tradition, it breeds violence. So a man who is seeking to understand violence does not belong to any country, to any religion, to any political party or partial system; he is concerned with the total understanding of mankind. ~Jiddu Krishnamurti

So, just call us The Stannard5.